Community .. What Community?

BusinessEngaged is what we call our approach to systems we are building for organisations that are ready for The Age of Engagement. It is a fundamental shift in how businesses connect, operate, and grow.

At the heart of engagement is community.

And that’s where we have a problem.

Because community has been hijacked.

Not suddenly. Not by one bad actor. This is how language always gets killed - slowly, by overuse, by laziness, by marketing departments who needed a word that felt warm and human and didn’t cost anything to say.


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We know this pattern well. At PHI⑊PIN, precision in language isn’t a preference - it’s a principle. Language was one of the core tenets of People First and now in Structured Thought. Words shape how we think. Corrupt the word, corrupt the thinking.

So before we go any further - before we build, before we invite, before we grow .... we need to define exactly what we mean by community and just as importantly, what we don’t.

What does the dictionary say?

Let’s start with Merriam-Webster. 🔗 Their definition opens with:

a unified body of individuals

And then it goes on - and on. Seven sub-definitions under the first sense alone, from people living in a particular area, to a monastic community, to an interacting population of micro-organisms.

It’s not wrong. But a definition that needs seven sub-senses has told you everything and nothing.

I think the second sense gets closer to the feeling people chase:

a state or feeling of caring about and wanting to interact with others in a group

A feeling. Isn’t that what everyone is selling when they say “join our ‘community’.” The feeling. Not the substance.

And that’s the hijack in plain sight.

A Different Way To Support Us

A Community Is

... people who need each other to succeed. And know it.
... people who recognise each other’s stake in a shared endeavour.
... where an audience knows the presenter - and members know each other.
... not where you go. It’s what you contribute to.

Community Is NOT

... an audience - they might know the presenter; they don’t know each other.
... a mailing list or database - transactional, one-directional; your community are not records.
... a membership - a card doesn’t make you known.
... your users - a relationship with a product, not people.
... your new Slack workspace even if you call it that. A channel is not a covenant.
... a networking event - connections made over coffee don’t create mutual stake.

and it certainly isn’t a room full of people having conversations, thought it might be a starting point.

A Quick Test

Do the members need each other? Not the platform. Not the host. Each other?

If yes - you might have a community.

If no - well then you might have something useful. Just don’t call it community.

The conversations are happening. The commitments are real. If you’re sensing this and already asking these questions, then you don’t need a better system - yet. You need a clearer answer to a simpler one: what are you actually trying to do?

That’s where we start.

Better Call John


🖋️ Community .... What Community?

Everyone has a ‘community’ and almost nobody does 🔵 and since community is core to everything we are building for the ‘Age of Engagement’ , it’s time we told you what we actually think. Spoiler alert: it’s not your Slack workspace, it’s not your mailing list and it’s certainly not your followers.


Who’s Jonathan Cain again? Looked him up. Not only did I find out who he is .. but also why I didn’t know the name and why I can now safely forget it again.


Headline: ‘Appears to Blast Trump on Epstein Files’

The Reacher and War Machine action star seemingly blasted President Trump over the Epstein files during an eye-opening f-bomb filled rant …

“I think people are a little bit afraid of me because they’re like, ‘He’s a loose cannon,’ and I’m not," Ritchson began, a bit ironically. “I’m just saying the shit that everybody should say if they give a shit about humanity. Everybody else should feel like I feel”

💬 James Hibberd - The Hollywood Reporter

So no … not at all would be my take.



🔗 Diversion - Futility Closet

Never heard of ’43 Man Squarmish’ - but the

deliberately incomprehensible sport

comment resonated - reminding me of a game we played as a youth. ‘Game’ mind you - not sport - that we called ’Zoom Schwartz and Profilgliano’.

Anyone else?


🔗 Is the Market Overvalued? Four Perspectives – Asymco

Data, data everywhere but not a conclusion in sight.

💬 Horace Dediu

Exactly the foundation of our thinking - which is why we build not just with a view to DIKW - but DIKIWI.


🔗 Scripting News: How I see the network evolving

The thing about bootstraps is you can’t anticipate all the questions in advance, and thus can’t have answers prepared for them.

Not just bootstraps. If you can “anticipate all the questions in advance” - then we believe you are not thinking..

‘Agility in thinking’ as we build our apps is (are?) ‘table stakes’.


Just been advised by my hosting provider that I am running malicious code on my home page. I used their scanner to discover the offending file and asked Claude ‘what’s that about ‘. Toold me and now rewriting what we were trying to achieve to begin with. Uploading in a minute - if one cycle fixes it - I will be well impressed.


The Washington Post is reporting that Paramount agreed to “halt” its merger with WB until “as late as July 2027” due to a major antitrust lawsuit brought by 12 Democratic states. They are also “facing a challenge from the Writers Guild of America, which represents many screenwriters and journalists, as well as a group of consumers in Northern California.”

I wonder if it is more to do with cash flow?

Oracle is after all the vehicle that is allowing ‘the first son’ to do this …


🖋️ Nilay Patel and Bart Butler - CTO of Proton - Talking

Privacy isn’t about hiding. It’s about choosing - not a quote - but that is absolutely the thread running through this Podcast - encryption, jurisdiction, age verification, AI. Bart keeps returning to ‘control’ as the definition of privacy, not secrecy.


This dates back to May - and need to check current status - but riddle me this … why would anybody travel through the USA - much less to?

🔗 The Fourth Circuit Says Border Agents Can Search Your Phone By Hand, No Suspicion Required | Electronic Frontier Foundation

Current stats that I can see:

The Fourth Circuit ruled in July 2026 that CBP officers may manually scroll through any traveler’s phone without suspicion, while forensic software extractions still require individualised justification.


👁️ Why oh why does 🍎 make it so hard to change an email signature?


🔗 Kalanick raises $1.7B for Atoms, and Uber invests too

The mood around the deal is euphoric. One a16z partner called it the largest cheque the firm has ever written. Another investor predicted Atoms would be worth a trillion dollars within a decade. Horowitz put it more simply: “Travis is back.”

What could possibly go wrong?


🔗 Zeldman

The instant a business guy uses a sports metaphor to make his most important strategic point, I am lost. If you want me to understand your business idea, try wrapping it in Wendy Carlos’s secrets of synthesis or quotations by Orson Welles or the punchline to an old joke.

💬 Jeffrey Zeldman

Another ‘life truth’.

It gets even worse when the sport is only played in one country and the metaphor attempts to cross the ocean … and yet - even I am on occasions - guilty.

I am looking at you ‘🖇️ playbook’.


I allow it because the original meaning of the term is even older than the USA - let alone ‘American Football’ - and yes I made that discovery was made years after I started using the term - but I’ll still take it 😉.


🔗 Lens distortion | Self Distract

All of which is a long-winded way to say each to their own. But telling me that because I’m a writer, I am incapable of knowing whether I’ve enjoyed a film or not, that is some intense bollocks there.

💬 William Gallagher

Concur.

Could be applied to many aspects of life …

Do not judge me based on your prejudices.


🖋️ Apple doesn't win races. It waits for everyone else to finish, then redraws the finish line.

Apple has run the same play for 25 years and still ‘nobody’ (barring. a few) ever sees it coming.



Microsoft considers replacing ChatGPT and Claude with China’s Kimi K3 to save $600 million

.. at least until Tяump bans it.


💬 Chairman John

All the interesting work happens at the boundaries. Where people and technology intersect. Where the gap between ‘what we say and ‘what we do’ is visible.

All the interesting work happens at the boundaries. Where people and technology intersect. Where the gap between 'what we say and 'what we do' is visible.