Yes - and ...
The group of 150 or so is not that big.
I KNOW the person. We haven't met in the flesh - have on Zoom and the spouse I have met IRL.
I am in New Zealand - but a Brit that has spent a long time in California.
The other person is an intelligent American from the North East states - living in the UK.
The group is primarily UK oriented.
In so many ways it is no big deal. Talk about first world problems! And it isn't that singular issue - but rather a broader thought - that IF someone I know can take umbrage at my throwaway joke and get offended (personally - or 'on behalf of') .. in a different space it could be a lot worse.
Maybe it's me - but then - 🖇️ maybe not